According To A Queer Grrrl:A Girl Night OUT versus a Girl Night IN

Fellow fine females, this blog is dedicated to US. To explore a new comfort level of enjoying your own company. It’s time to ditch any ideas that “me” time is limited to internet surfing, gym work outs and lunch at the food court. Go beyond sterotypes and really make ME time important. Here are a couple ideas to ponder. What would give you the perfect break from a hectic schedule? Being OUT and enjoying all the city has to offer? Or Staying IN and bringing luxuriousness to yourself. Or maybe a happy medium somewhere in between.

Girl Night Out

Do something without the usual gang of bff’s and bbm’ers that will make you happy. Taking in a chick flick can bring the same tears to your eyes, whether they be from laughter or sobbing. Going for a long walk in a neighbourhood of Toronto you have yet to explore. The Beaches are a great place just to go and be a tourist. You dont have to worry about wearing your best outfit, as you have no one to impress, except yourself.

This would be a great time to check out that restaurant that none of your friends want to go to. Indulge and have that dessert that you don’t have to share. Being on your own schedule is relaxing just in itself. Keep cell phone off for as long as you can stand it. Take your time and walk around wherever you choose to go as there is no one to rush off to meet.

Girl Night IN

A warm bubble bath, wine, and soft music can get a bit tedious no matter how fragrant the bubbles or vintage of the wine. Let Retail Therapy bring you some new ideas. Shop for a different things that you wouldn’t normally buy. So, add this to your list of things to do on your Girl Night IN. The concept of men holding sole ownership of porn’s sexual pleasure has been banished. Its not just for the queerios amongst us, but for the straights as well. Porn that is actually quite hot and are filmed by intelligent directors. Sex education videos and porn with delicious story lines are worth a look.

Nina Hartley is not a Porn Queen, but the Empress. Her videos are how to do everything from how to eat a pussy to bondage and anal sex for women. Nina’s sexy ways have a way of giving just about anyone confidence to go out and try it on your next willing victim or be the victim yourself. Seductions, has a good selection of her videos, or if you prefer, you can get them online

Story Line Porn has evolved into something of a fine art. Good costumes and acting actually do exist. Batman_XXX:_A_Porn_Parody is a perfect example. Its a parody, that happens to have porn, in it. The director Axel Braun when speaking of his work, “It looks like an episode of the TV show…The costumes are amazing. I went as far as finding the same fabric and dyes.” This is a great way to start your own DVD collection but have it focused on your night IN by yourself.

So, for you, what would be best? A night out or in? or a bit of both? Whatever you do, make sure you take the time to do it right.

words by shona