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According to a Queer Grrrl:True Bath House Stories

According to a Queer Grrrl:True Bath House Stories

It's a carved niche in the social sexual experience of all willing women and trans folk. I am going tell you what happens at a bath house, with the most objective and generalized view. I enjoy the watching, the voyeur aspect that's the sultry and more than erotically exotic. So, this is my exploration log, if you will, of all of my bath houses experiences, through out the years.

Make your own Dance floor.

DJ COZMIC CAT is a regular at the Pleasure Palace. She always spins some fine, heart felt tunes. She creates an energy with her music that...




Mayer Hawthorne and Chromeo came to get down

Mayer Hawthorne and Chromeo came to get down

  You would think by the end of a 30 date US/Canada tour a musician would be a little run down, a little tired, and maybe wearing yesterday's clothes. But for the last stop on their Nights Fall tour both Detroit's Mayer Hawthorne with his backing band the Country and Montreal's Chromeo looked like they'd but on their best and were still full of enough energy to bring the Sound Academy crowd up and then bring it back down, nice and low.
From centre stage Mayer, dressed in a fine red suit, told the crowd how he's one...


According to A Queer Grrrl:Just Don’t Stand There Toronto!

According to A Queer Grrrl:Just Don’t Stand There Toronto!

Lace up your converse, or shine up the heels. Whatever is more comfortable for you to walk the Scotiabank Aids Walk for Life Supporting the Aids Committee of Toronto -ACT- their goal is to "make a difference for your commnunity." This year, it's at the south east end of the gaybourhood at Carlton and Church. Starting at 12 30, an top list of entertainers line up leads up to the main event! The Walk starts at 2 pm and goes to 3 pm. Post march entertainment starts at 3 30pm and goes to 6pm. Who's going to...


According to a Queer Grrrl: Pride 2011 and Beyond

According to a Queer Grrrl: Pride 2011 and Beyond

Its countdown to the 2011 Pride Festival. Amazing events are happening for the Queerio community. These organisations planning to entertain you with their wit and grit, also work all year round to provide support and various fun things to do.

Stud Magazine

This magazine was started to provide information and support for "non-gender conforming females." Being a Stud isn't about sexuality, but "gender performance." Education is an important topic for the 'zine. Studs often don't find the same opportunities as other people, as their gender expression usually isn't well received. The site provides youth info...


According to a Queer Grrrl: Drunk Degenerite or Designated Walker?

According to a Queer Grrrl: Drunk Degenerite or Designated Walker?

You already know how to be a degenerite when you get drunk. The silly laughter, the ability to dance better, and have more swagger to impress the grrrls. Until of course you see the unflattering Face Book pics the next day. According to urban word dictionary, a Designated Walker or DW is a person who makes sure you dont get hit by a bad camera angle,  "runs the risk of projectile vommitting" and gets everyone home safe and sound. For the most part, you are sober, or drink very little. Its the 2011 version of an old...


The Blonde Poncho: Mos Def calls out Beibs on Twitter

The Blonde Poncho: Mos Def calls out Beibs on Twitter

So I was browsing Twitter the other day I came across this:

"I heard Justin Bieber has a 10 inch dick, but

its in his ass and belongs to Usher."

So I know you're all dying to know who said that....... MOS DEF. Now I am assuming this is Mos Def's actual Twitter account although it is not "verified." But the account does have more than 80 000 followers.....so lets just assume that yes in fact this is Mos Def's official twitter account. So lets dive in! WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT....


Entertaining Under The Influence… Valentimes is Serious Times

Entertaining Under The Influence… Valentimes is Serious Times

I really don't understand the hatred felt towards Valentine's day. I thought we were over the whole 1973 celebrating Christmas in October because then it won't be commercialized anger towards the man schtik. To me Valentine's is a mid-winter pick me up that gives the world permission to gorge themselves on chocolate, unnecessarily rich food and champagne. Obviously, like any woman, I'd rather be surprised with a bouquet of daisies out of no where, but I try not to expect these things from a boyfriend on a student budget.  Men on the other hand, hate Valentine's day because not only...


According To A Queer Grrrl: Valentine’s Day: 19+ Never Felt So Good.

According To A Queer Grrrl: Valentine’s Day: 19+ Never Felt So Good.

The weekend before Valentines Day has some promising events for both singles and couples. Here are some of the top picks. I found a wide range for every taste.

Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair

This fair is back for a fifth year featuring artists, crafters and card makers, just to name a few. The fair runs from noon to 8 on Sat Feb 12 at the Gladstone Hotel, 1214 Queen West. Its the 501 Queen Car that takes you to Dufferin and Queen. Where else can you pick up a “hand knitted hickey hider” or...


According to a Queer Grrrl: The Str8 Goods.

According to a Queer Grrrl: The Str8 Goods.

So I thought to dedicate a blog to my straight male peeps. My bro', literally straighter than a nail was hanging with me over Xmas. We went out on a Thursday night. Looking for something cheap after all that Xmas shopping. We have three things in common, bro' and I: sex , vaping and karaoke. We started at Seductions, travelled to Village Vapor. Then found ourselves in karaoke wonderland at the Fox and Fiddle. Walmart of Sex Stores . . Our first stop was Seductions at 577 Yonge Street. The sex part was  easy. He's newly...


Sex Etiquette…The Jump Off Code of Conduct

Sex Etiquette…The Jump Off Code of Conduct

During a recent conversation with one of my most favourite people, the subject of ideal jump off behaviour was raised. Not rules per se, because the nature of the jump off relationship kind of precludes the right to tell people what to do, but more of a voluntary code of conduct that jump offs who are serious about their craft would adhere to. I looked around and it seemed no such thing exists, so as usual I have to come to save the day with the international Jump Off Code of Conduct. This applies to both genders (yes...


Movie Review: Going The Distance

Movie Review: Going The Distance

Going the Distance is a tale about a couple that never really got started until after they were separated. Erin and Garrett have a blissful 6 weeks together, both knowing that it's not going to last because she has to go back to San Fransisco, while he's stuck in New York City for work. But, of course, after the 6 weeks are up, neither of them wants to split, and so commences the texting, sexting and phone sex! The Good: This movie has potential, only if you LIKE romantic comedies, otherwise, it blew, and boy, did it blow...


Sex Etiquette…Pest Control

Sex Etiquette…Pest Control

It is a sad but true fact that into every woman’s life a little infestation must fall. For us gals, the existence of pests is as ubiquitous as a trip to the feminine care aisle at Shopper’s and every bit as unpleasant. These pests come in many forms – an ex who just needs one more chance, a completely unsuitable man we gave some to in a moment of weakness, or a poor sap whose only crime is residing on the wrong rung of the ladder. Whoever he is, a pest can make a...


Be Great on a First Date

Be Great on a First Date

1. Don't talk about your ex (or any other dude for that matter) Ever been on a date or had a conversation with a dude that was going really well and then all of a sudden he shut down? And you spent the rest of your life wondering what the eff happened to change the mood so drastically? Well get ready to fall in love with me because I'm about to give you the answer: you said something that set old dude's alarm bells off. See one of the most maddening things about men is that they draw all kinds of 


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